Do you fight or run away?
I do this:
1. I evaluate if the incoming army intends to kill me or my family.
2. If the answer is Yes, I move them to a safer place.
3. If the answer is No, I move them to a safer place.
4. If the answer is Not sure, I move them to a safer place.
That's exactly why we moved to a whiter area and away from the invading army of black thugs. Or should I stay there and fight them?
Notice the absence of meaningless crap words like "democracy", "freedom", "pride", "patriotism", and "hero" in my answer.
BTW, to the best of my knowledge, the Russian army never intended to kill, murder, or execute Ukrainians. Just the opposite. They went out of their way to minimize civilian casualties.
That's why civilian casualties are so low and why Western Russia haters don't even try to make it first-page news out of fear that the more diligent of us would compare them with the stats in Iraq.
That is also the reason why it takes longer than they expected. US-style shock and awe would not sell very well in Russia just as it would not be very popular if we did it in Canada or the UK.
Did you notice the absence of napalm - the means so happily employed by the US in Vietnam to keep the South part of it "democratic", without asking the smoldering victims if they like the idea of dying for it?