I don't try to live up to other people's expectations.
I have a wife to remind me that I look like sh*it and need a haircut. I would kill (that was a Polish metaphor) to look like Keith Morrison but my hair is not that good and my wife won't let it grow that long.
I buy my socks from Costo for their quality. They last forever...
So if you are right (which I am sure you are) jon & bobko are mentally ill too?
I didn't see their medical records so I can't tell.
You will be disappointed with my answer...If my own son told me that he enjoys sticking his penis into other guys' rectums, I would tell him that he is a sick moron and in need of medical intervention.
I would also tell him not to touch anything when visiting. On the positive side, I would hire the best-looking hooker in town and tell her to start banging or sucking him until he realizes that a woman's vagina is the correct hole and so much more fun.
I would do it for only one purpose: to get grandkids to love later. Our own is just an expense and a PITA that kills all the joys of being young and free to go places.
Now that I answered you provocative question fully and honestly, you can return the favor by leaving other guys' wives and daughters alone.