If RuSSia was attacked by NATO
I sympathize with your woman's outlook on current affairs (I say this with great respect for your sex).
Have you ever heard the Latin proverb, "quod licet Iovi, non licet bovi"? Literally translated, it means: "
what is permitted of Jupiter is not permitted of a bull."As Russians, we struggle ourselves with this double standard in modern global affairs. Why does America do the same things as us, and does not get sanctioned like we do? The answer we receive is along the lines of that Latin proverb. In essence - don't compare yourself to the USA, because they are incomparably stronger.
So, while we are weaker than the USA, we are still stronger than most any other country (China has overtaken us economically, but not yet militarily). The same rules do not apply to us, as apply to Ukraine. Unlike Ukraine, we can take all 7 billion people of this planet together with us to hell. That is why your question is senseless.
Life is unfair, and the world is run by the strong. The liberal order is fragile, and built on contradictions.