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Bobko
2 Jun 2023  #661

People raised like you(what you described that is)

I recognize that being raised the way I was is also a little bit fu*ked up, because your "parents" are essentially guaranteed to die in your twenties. When visiting home, I hang out at my grandmas cemetery more times during the week than I would like to admit. Perhaps this is more associated with the typical pain of an emigrant.

Lenka
2 Jun 2023  #662

Well, my mom was over 40 when she had me so you know... Dad died when I was 16. It's not that part, it's the coming and doing laundry, opening mail etc. In my family it was understood that once a kid moves out ( whenever they are ready from 21 to never) they have the right to stand on their own. We are here if you need us but we assume you can make it. A bit like in gymnastics when a coach stands by. He is there and will catch/ help if needed but otherwise let's the kids fly :)

Bobko
2 Jun 2023  #663

Well, my mom was over 40 when she had me so you know...

Same with my younger brother with whom I have a 17 year difference. Worried about him.

my family it was understood that once a kid moves out ( whenever they are ready from 21 to never) they have the right to stand on their own

Believe me, I asked God to send me such a family many times.

AntV
2 Jun 2023  #664

I couldn't wait to graduate high school and move out. Working sh!t jobs, living in worn-out apartments...wouldn't trade it. I oftentimes worry that my kids are disadvantaged, since they won't probably experience the rough-and-tumble realities of subsistence living. There's something valuable in that struggle.

Lenka
2 Jun 2023  #665

Worried about him.

I don't think there is any reason to as long as your brother will manage to become independent before they sadly die. Another matter is that you live so far away that if they need care he will have a heavy burden.

I asked God to send me such a family many times.

Nothing is perfect. But my mom was no martyr. She expected the kids to do their part. It was nothing too strict. But since I was about 13/14 I was responsible for washing the dishes. My sister was responsible for bathroom. If we were meeting with friends etc it wasn't a problem but we always tried to fit those things in. During summer holidays when mom was at work we were supposedto clean the house and peel potatoes, veggies etc, do small shopping etc.

On the other hand there was always big respect for boundaries. I could leave my diary anywhere and no-one read it. Our mail was sacred and things never searched. If my mom needed something from her purse dad and us would bring the whole thing, no-one dared to look inside as it was her space. I think it was necessary in conditions as crammed as our flat sometimes was.

johnny reb
2 Jun 2023  #666

Lenka, you are a real joy when you open up.

Miloslaw
2 Jun 2023  #667

Did she really open up that much in your opinion?
And if she did and that is worthy,when will you do the same?

johnny reb
2 Jun 2023  #668

Was someone talking to you Penis Pimple

Cargo pants
3 Jun 2023  #669

lololol JR too funny lol he has a habbit of arse sniffing,remember he is that brit sh.it like that Fat Diabetic mod vincent:))

Cargo pants
3 Jun 2023  #670

They have to be pretty desperate to be be advertising on here. Its probably a bunch of mud bud

Potheads know it all.
@spellatin,Clown car owner with fake tickets to Poland this way~~~~~~~~~~~>

pawian
3 Jun 2023  #671

I'll say a prayer for you anyway.

Wow, Novi`s condition must be truly tragic if you are saying it. :):)

Atch
3 Jun 2023  #672

I appreciate your kind words but then who the hell am I going to argue with?

You could go to a different forum to argue and come here for friendship :) with the odd 'heated debate' of course!

youtube.com/watch?v=VjEq-r2agqc

Novichok
3 Jun 2023  #673

Wow, Novi`s condition must be truly tragic if you are saying it. :):)

My condition was improving and you show up...

Korvinus
3 Jun 2023  #674

would write: Tyrranical Putin

Bombs falling on their homes, schools and kindergardens teach them hate for Putin. And it's a perfectly valid reason.

And you are just a pitiful western commie who fails to understand the obvious thing due to being half-suffocated by your own farts.

But we have a perfectly good peace proposal already: Putin get the fu*ck out of Ukraine (and pay for all the damages before going to the Hague to answer for your crimes).

pawian
3 Jun 2023  #675

My condition was improving

Exactly. I deliberately gave you some time to recover from your mental wounds. Now, when you have, the game starts anew. hahaha

Novichok
3 Jun 2023  #676

NATO? What NATO?

youtu.be/-0-lmg1Lx3o
That NATO...

And you are just a pitiful western commie

Hey, stupid Polak, learn how to respond without getting personal.

Alien
3 Jun 2023  #677

Hey, Alien, do you realize what you did by starting this thread?

Unfortunately, this promising thread was deliberately destroyed

Novichok
3 Jun 2023  #678

Just as we were getting more honest about our lives and feelings...It really pi*ssed me off. It was beyond stupid as there was no harm in letting it run as a free-wheeling conversation.

I really would like to know why...

Korvinus
3 Jun 2023  #679

Hey, stupid Polak, learn how to respond without getting personal.

Bit*ch, you're really beginning to bore me with these same old inane drivels you spout and then congratulate yourself as being insightful.
Smell your own farts elsewhere and crawl the fu*ck back to the primordial Turkish toilet your whole family spawned from.

Novichok
3 Jun 2023  #680

I am sorry that you missed my "Hey, stupid Polak, learn how to respond without getting personal."

these same old inane drivels

Did you send a note to Z about his old inane drivel about NATO? He just never stops talking about NATO. NATO, NATO, NATO,...all day long...

Korvinus
3 Jun 2023  #681

Hey, stupid Polak, learn how to respond without getting personal.

You're trying to get personal again? I understand that must be difficult for you, since you don't know me, and have the general psychological insight and integrity of a third-rate Freud (a Jewish fraud who also hated Western Civilization as much as Marx did, and used similar methods in undermining its foundations). But the real question is why you feel compelled to spend your time trying to insult me. I think that is because it's all you can do. I have noticed that when you have nothing else to say, which is 95% of the time, trying to get personal is what you'll do. I don't think you will accomplish much with your attempts. The reason for that is that you just can't match the amount of contempt that truly intelligent people have for your ilk. Try to understand that you haven't been able to say anything even remotely interesting during your entire stay here as far as I've noticed. Do you understand that? Because if you do, maybe you can also do some of us a favor and stop posting here.

Novichok
3 Jun 2023  #682

But the real question is why you feel compelled to spend your time trying to insult me.

It's actually very simple. You see, moron, I react to posts like this one:

And you are just a pitiful western commie who fails to understand the obvious thing due to being half-suffocated by your own farts.

So, if you want to test my vast English vocabulary, you Polish pos, go ahead and continue posting vile crap like the one above.
Now, children, you can see why I left Poland. Most of these idiots are like this one.

Miloslaw
3 Jun 2023  #683

Was someone talking to you Penis Pimple

I see that the old,fat,bald American underachieving guy with a HUGE inferiority complex has resorted back to trolling.
Along with his midget mate from India!
What a pair of losers!

Cargo pants
3 Jun 2023  #684

Along with his midget mate from India!

I didnt know your daughters humper was a midget :))))
How does JR know him???Did your wife introduce them???
BTW did you make enough selling carpets for bread today??

Miloslaw
3 Jun 2023  #685

I couldn't agree more.And what payback do you get for it?People across the world hate America.
This policy is counter productive.Time for the USA to butt out and mind their own business.

Miloslaw
3 Jun 2023  #686

@Cargo pants

LOL!!!!
What a pathetic,weak,midget troll you are.
You and JR Jim are laughing stocks on here!
Or are you too dumb to have noticed that?

Cargo pants
3 Jun 2023  #687

You and JR Jim are laughing stocks on here!

Thats not what your wife says milo,she still has my pic in her purse:))

Miloslaw
3 Jun 2023  #688

HaHaHaHa!

My Irish wife would slap your tiny Paki arse into oblivion!!!!

Pathetic little troll.....

Cargo pants
3 Jun 2023  #689

@Miloslaw
No wonder you are nothing and nobody or someone would listen to ya croaking:)

Cargo pants
3 Jun 2023  #690

lol thats what she told you or you are guessing?I know she likes hard spanking:))) did you know????


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