Bobko
1 Oct 2024 #841
I am for the death penalty. I would switch to anti if you were sentenced to it.
A refreshing honesty.
Well, what can I say... I am no longer a homophobe.
Arriving from Russia to America for college, I was a militant homophobe. I would expound upon my homo hating ideology pretty much daily, to my three other suite mates. In the evening over a game on the PlayStation. On the way back from the bar. In the morning, during breakfast in the cafeteria.
Then one fine day, during breakfast, I went on an especially savage homophobic rant (I had suffered through two gay guys making out in the same elevator as I was riding in, the previous evening). That's when my suite mate of a few months, finally spoke up, and asked me: "Bobko, did you know I was gay?"
I was so embarrassed, I wanted to fall through the ground.
Here's this guy, that I love and respect, and he's been sitting there quietly for months listening to me curse his kind.
After that day, I toned things down by quite a bit. I still hate public displays of affection, and I wish they wouldn't flaunt their "liberties" during the annual parade, but otherwise I don't care anymore.
It was enough for me to meet one decent, intelligent, and very understanding towards my irrational hatred man - to abandon my ways.
Since then, I've discovered gay cousins, gay coworkers, gay investors, and so on. I still find reason to hate many of them, but for the same reasons as I might hate any other civilian.
