and there will be no fourth. ;)
... поживём - увидим, as ancient Romans used to say. ;)
I am convinced that Poles and Russians are very similar people.
We are similiar indeed and the similarities are multitudinous, it's true.
There are, however, notable differences.
1. Poles are madly in love with freedom. I pity any Polish government or a dictator, if there ever appears one, who have to try and control our unruly mob. There is nothing in Poles even remotely resembling Russian awe and submission for authority. We generally despise our politicians and if anyone tried to hang a portrait of a
living politician in his home, office etc., he would be mocked and generally considered a retard (dead politicians, like Piłsudski or Dmowski, are acceptable if they signify a larger idea).
2. Poland, these days, is by and large a national* state whilst Russia is still pretty much imperial. Our traditions are imperial but our present day is that of a middle-sized, middle-modern and middle-powerful country, and most people have enough common sense not to deny reality.
3. One thing where we absolutely refuse to accept reality is our roots. A Russian generally accepts his humble roots and doesn't have any
personal delusions of grandeur (those are left for the state-level psychosis); a Pole - on the other hand - will rarely perceive his lineage as coming from anyone lesser than hetman Żółkiewski ha ha
In this regard we are similar to the Japanese, also a society with overwhelmingly peasant roots, who believe themselves to all be descendants of the Samurai. Poles are all Szlachta. :)
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* - reservation to point 2:
Poland might be a national state at present but Polishness - in its very core - is hardly a nationality or an ethnicity. Polishness has always been an idea and an ideal, adapted as their own by people of various nationalities/ethnicities. Damn it, our greatest poet and national bard started his cult epic poem with "
Litwo, ojczyzno moja", the greatest Polish-American military leader and war hero was, by today's standards, a Belarussian; the greatest Polish scientist spoke German more often than Polish (just like our greatest sculptor or a general memorized in our national anthem)...
*sighs*... I could go on but my point is that silly foreigners accuse us, based on what I mentioned, that we steal the heroes of other nations, that we were only simple peasants and if there ever was a great Pole, all you had to to was to scratch him and underneath appeared a German, East Slav (of various ethnicities), Lithuanian or a Jew. But it's a lie - they all felt Polish and were just as Polish as our arch-Polish modern poet, Jarosław Marek Rymkiewicz, who himself admits that he has not a single drop of Polish blood in him but is still considered a horrible Polish nationalist by liberal-leftist "elites". :)
Polishness is a collective madness, a holy mental disorder, a sacred ideal. Difficult to explain.