who has won?
May, being an ignoramus, still thinks that by all means fair and foul, she can win her deal. The figures say that she can't and wont.
The only real alternative is either a second referendum or revoke, because as you say, the UK would be fair worse off in any event. The only good Brexit is no Brexit at all - and no MP will publically admit to that because they are career politicians, and know which side their bread is buttered on, especially the Labour types who are not fit for anything else but to represent others.
but once out we can negociate to change things
Don't know what you mean Milo - how can you negotiate when you are no longer part of the club?