Milo, it's a shame your Irish father-in-law never explained to you the difference between Republican and Nationalist
He did actually.But I always told him that was an Irish perspective not shared on this side of The Irish Sea.
We don't see that nuance that you Irish see.
Dad, as I called him,was a very proud Irishman.A Catholic.
He was very proud of Ireland's independence but hated the IRA just as much as he hated the UDA.
He was not in favour of a united Ireland, because, in his view, that was just Britain washing her hands of her responsibilities, and problems, and handing them over to Ireland.
He thought that the Protestants would cause even more trouble under rule from Dublin than under rule from London.
I think he was right.
Sadly, he died in 2003, his wife, my mother in law is still alive and a very fit 87 years of age.
I still miss him after all these years.