A very interesting observation that gives some proof that Germany is in control of the EU and not the EU parliament.
This observation just gives further proof that the Brexiteers never understood how the EU works. Because even if this calculation had been correct, Germany is in no position to force the EU to comply, because every country has the ability to veto the treaty with the UK. And countries like Ireland habe pledged to do so if their interests are not properly respected.
The strategy of the Brexiteers is so flawed because it was based on wishful thinking and their own ideology. They want to believe that the EU is dominated by Germany, despite all evidence to the contrary, because it fits into their existing beliefs and further justify Brexit. Brexiteers like to claim that the negotiations went so badly because of May's weakness, or because of the nefarious EU, but the truth is that their own entire approach to the negotiations was wrong.
All of this would have been predictable to anyone who has a basic understanding how the EU works. That someone like David Davis who got things so wrong still continues to be a prominent Brexiteers illustrates how clueless many of them are. And this misreading of the EU is further based on a basic misreading of Germany's interests. Because the EU is so vital for Germany's economy, it was always clear that it would want to avoid anything that could undermine the EU. Furthermore Germany's history made it more receptive to e.g. the interests of Ireland, especially if the chancellor of Germany is from the former GDR.
That being said, my original point was that May was in no position to bluff precisely because everybody knew that she had been pressured to avoid a no-deal, while Germany (the country the Brexiteers were mistakenly counting on) or any other for that matter did not face the same pressure. And everybody knew that, it was even in the papers. Barnier could have simply called her bluff by quoting any of the prominent British buisnessmen who warned against a hard bBrexit.
This was not the only time the British were blindsided, remember when the Spanish made some pressure because of Gibraltar?
I've read a million times in British newspapers that the EU needs Britain more than vice versa
Indeed, and that even leaves out that the damage of Brexit could be better absorbed by the EU. Sure every country would suffer to some extent, but the country that would be simiarly affected to the EU would be Ireland. A small country that relatively easy be stabilized by some additional EU funds.