I had TWO friends; good friends.
You're right Dougpol1. Your experience with your two friends proves your point and challenges the veracity of everyone who has an opinion different to yours. I mean, really ?? You might be able to string a few sentences together but please let me know when you actually say something of intellectual merit as I might miss it.
And his two beautiful children. All white.
And what does this prove exactly ?
- and worth ten of you *******.
Is there really any need for that ? You don't know me so have no idea what I am worth. This may be a public forum but there are rules.....
A catholic girl.
Did they have children. Were they baptised ? Did she continue to practise her faith after being married. No need to answer........
SO. Two friends. Two inter-faith marriages. Do the maths.
I have done and it doesn't look good for your argument.
You know what Dougpol1. I don't actually enjoy this type of online preening. You don't know me and equally I don't know. You're probably a good guy who just expresses himself a certain way.
All of us are the sum totals of our environment and experience. I live in the UK in an area where there are many muslim communities. I consider myself to genuinely be one of the nicest people I know and a few years ago I would cringe whenever I heard people speaking in derogatory terms about anyone from a different race. I am the son of Polish immigrants and they didn't have it easy when they first came to England so that compassion was breathed into me from an early age.
The first wave of Pakistani and Bangladeshi immigrants actually integrated better than the third and fourth generation people we see here today. The burka and niqab were nowhere to be seen in the 1960's.
However, experience has slowly changed and hardened my attitude. Muslims initially want to be free to be muslims in the UK but it doesn't stop there. Muslim lobby groups then try to pressure local councils, MP's and commercial enterprises to change for their benefit and ONLY for their benefit. So now we have a national eatery chain that not only sells only Halal meat in their sandwiches but has also banned pork and bacon in their stores. As a Christian, I would like to eat something that hasn't been blessed in the name of a muslim god but I'd settle for eating something that hasn't been blessed in the name of any god..........as it has been for the last century !!
We had a scenario where major supermarket chains were selling Halal meat without marking it as Halal and it was only due to media coverage they felt obliged to clearly mark and inform their customers.
Local councils are abusing their powers to grant planning permission to Muslim community centres. These community centres' real ambition is to be a mosque but they know they won't always get planning permission straight away so they apply for a "community centre with a prayer room". After a few years they apply for an amendment to the original application that would allow them to accommodate more worshippers and to operate from sun rise to sun down. Now these hours in the summer months can mean over twelve hours of operational use and these centres are usually wedged right smack in the middle of residential streets. Residents concerns are usually overlooked however which does nothing for community relations.
I do agree with you that Poles are racist but I'm going to move the argument to a different level and ask the question, "is it wrong to be racist" ? I don't mean it's acceptable to treat another human person worse than we would treat our own countrymen but is it wrong to want your own country to have people who share the same history, language, food, culture and traditions as yourself ?
Multiculturalism is not something Poland should be aspiring to and even in the UK there is a growing school of thought that the multiculturalism experiment has failed to deliver on it's promises. It does not create a "richer" society it only creates a society that is more divided. There is one important caveat in that I believe the failure is largely associated with muslims. Blacks, Chinese, Indians etc have all integrated far better.
As a side note regarding your comment about Poles being racist I have personally found many English people to be more racist towards Poles than to people with darker skin tones. It's not relevant to this discussion but an interesting observation all the same.
Your summary of what this thread is about is accurate
A what should we be doing to help the refugees
B what kind of country Poles want
B-I have tried to answer this question and hope I have provided some food for thought on anyone wrestling with this question
A-Perhaps Poland should accept a limited number of refugees but only on one strict condition-that people are positively identified as genuine refugees and not economic migrants.
Question A in some ways is irrelevant and hypothetical as the refugees and migrants do not want to come to Poland and would only do so if they had no choice and even then they would move to a more preferable country once the opportunity arises.